Identity
Identity
comes natural in every person’s life and is very important aspect in a person’s
life to know the details and definition of their own identity. Connecting my
own self-identity to the story “How to Tame a Wild Tongue" by Gloria
Anzaludua and relating my personal life through identity has some positives. My
identity in my personal opinion is very average but has a connection through my
culture, identity gender, language and family.
Growing up I was always taught the
right way to perform in life, all thanks to my father. My father was always on
me for a good reason, which is to keep my focus on track in my life. My family
grew up in Long Island, New York as well as Brooklyn, New York. Growing up with
a Sicilian family and hearing accents all the time make my gender that much
stronger. Females in the United States always have a boost more than men.
Females and males do get deprived a lot at the same time. When being around a Sicilian
family and being born in another state, gets you adapted to that lifestyle. My family is usually loud, and we are known to
be loud because of our culture and growing into it.
My identity involves a lot as in
family, food, and my culture. Living with an Italian family, I always smell the
homemade eggplant, rigatoni and pasta with hot steam coming up from the top in
which my mother makes in the kitchen. When my mom starts cooking, I know that
we will be having a really good dinner by just taking a breather and smelling
the red tomato sauce pasta being cooked. My father was always cooking as well,
he was always known for being at the BBQ, the smell of the homemade BBQ sauce
to marinate onto the ribs. My father loves the preparation of getting a meal
together for his family. It is my father’s favorite thing to do. Also,
Relating Gloria story and what her family was like Anzaldua writes, “Homemade
white cheese sizzling in a pan, melting inside a folded tortilla” (111). She
explains what her identity is formed off and food was a major image in Gloria
mind. My family is very large and I have
a lot of cousins through both sides of my Sicilian family. An aspect of having
a huge family, in which they are all very hyper and loud, always comes to me in
a good way. Family is blood in which they will be by your side forever. I remember my family always going to my grandmother’s
house because her house was the main house we have dinners out. I walk in my
grandmothers front door,” Grandma!! I can hear you from a block away to when I
was pulling up into the driveway, who were you speaking to?” I asked. My
grandma replies, “I was not talking to any one Natalie, I was just talking to
everyone in the family”. Therefore, Italians talk loud and not only to one
person but they have multiple conversations at one time. Culture comes big in
my gender in which I was grew up in the Italian-American culture relating this
to Gloria Anzaludua’s story of her identity,
Mexican-American and can speak Spanish and English. My culture growing up was the daily routine;
school, homework, play, shower and then bedtime again when I was a little girl.
Overall, shaping my identity in my own life
has a big part in a person in every way; gender, culture and language all
feature a huge part in my life also connected to Gloria Anzaluda story. I felt
my closer connection was about her story and I could relate more to what she
had said in her story.
Mercury Reader: A Custom Publication. New York: Pearson Learning Solutions,
2010. Print.